Boy chase Girl (or not!)

So, some girlfriends and I were talking about men again, (big shock I know) and were wondering about the men in Arizona.  They aren’t the type to pursue women. Being that we are from other parts of the country were wondering, WTF?  Men out here tend to be grazers, not hunters.  Back east and in the midwest, when a man wants to get to know you, he tries to actually meet you face to face.  Men in AZ tend to be happy texting, or emailing or occasionally phoning.  They don’t hunt you down,  they nibble at you once in a while.  It’s very frustrating.  I don’t need another text buddy, I have my girlfriends and kids for that.  If you’re interested in me, for God’s sake make me know it!  The movie “He’s just not that into you” is really appropriate.  (Actually, I liked the book better, but that usually happens with me).  What has happened to all of the men that know what they want and want to get it?  Have they just become more docile and want to sit around and wait for us to make the first move?  Is it a rejection thing they are afraid of?  I’ve talked to guy friends of mine back east and this shit rarely happens in Chicago or New York. Since I don’t want to move there, can they teach the guys out here how to behave?  Maybe it goes back to elementary school when we played boy chase girl.  I loved that game!  I’m tired of girl chase boy!!!    Maybe I should just take my ball (or balls) and go home since I can’t find anyone to play with .  Thoughts?