Is the economy helping or hurting the quest for love??
April 17, 2009 at 10:59pm04 3 comments
Well, I was in line today to mail something and a woman was complaining to the guy that owns the place about her bad dating stories. Seeing that I’m all about that, I asked her what was the problem. I guess a man she met through a mutual friend (and I hope I have all the story correct) and had dated three weeks did something she considered shady.
When they met, he told her that financially he was in dire straits and didn’t have any money. She continued to date him, because she liked the guy. He asked her to come over to his house and even gave her a key to it, which would indicate that he liked her too.
Well, I guess he told their mutual friend, the story about his finances were false. He said he used that line with the women in Scottsdale to see if they liked him for him, or his money. Her friend then told her what he said, and she broke it off with him immediately, and was really pissed he lied to her. So, who do you think was right and who was wrong??
A very wealthy friend of mine was talking to me a few months ago about the dating scene here. He’s an attractive guy, and most wouldn’t know how wealthy he is unless they were told. He doesn’t wear his money on his sleeve, except his clothes are custom made. He said that he had never had so much attention from women in his life as recently and attributed it to the economy. He said that women are really husband hunting because they are afraid of being single and dealing with the economy on their own.
They say that less people are getting divorced now because they can’t afford to, does that also mean that more people are getting married because they can’t afford to be single? Are more women than usual looking for wealthy men because of their losses in the stock market or unemployment? Are girls nights out becoming a way of looking for a Mrs degree? Wtf is up with all that. Care to share your thoughts?
Entry filed under: still single, why still single, dating, relationships, men, women, sex. Tags: economy, finances, golddigger, men, relationships, women.
1. awisewoman | April 19, 2009 at 10:59am04
I think it’s understandable that the guy wanted to be sure the woman liked him for who he is, not his money. And to break it off with a man she liked and had money, is totally absurd. The man gave her a key to his house, that’s a big step. If she really liked the man, she should have been a bit more flexible.
I also read an article on dailynews.com about married couples living like roomates because they can’t afford to divorce right now. It’s a sign of the times.
2. kisskiss | April 21, 2009 at 10:59pm04
I’m going to have to take a look at the article, what was the name of it? It’s hard to find a guy with 80% of what you want, and maybe with the economy the way it is, it scares people and we should take that into account.
3. awisewoman | April 22, 2009 at 10:59am04
Here is the article: http://www.nydailynews.com/lifestyle/2009/03/06/2009-03-06_divorce_is_the_latest_recession_casualty.html
Dating is meant to be fun. Just be sure to guard your heart, body and ASSETS until you’re sure he’s the one.