Friends with benefits??

Well, yesterday I was talking to one of the girls I work with, who dated a guy recently.  Now they went out for a few months and had a great time and then he broke it off with her.  She was upset for a weekend or so, but was getting over him. 

About a week after they broke up, he started calling her again.  They’ve gone out, but now something has changed in the dynamics of the relationship.  They do everything like a couple dating, except have sex.  They had sex the first round of dating, and apparently it was good, so now what’s up?  She said they spent the weekend together, rented movies, cooked dinner, cuddled on the couch, but he doesn’t want to do the nasty. 

She also went over late Saturday night, and he was actually offended that she wanted to have sex.  In her mind, she doesn’t need a buddy to do all the stuff a couple that is dating does and not get to the finish line.  He thinks they are just hanging out so no sex is fine.  Is he getting it somewhere else I asked??  She said they spent every evening together so she didn’t think so. 

She’s definitely looking for a friends with benefits deal, because she doesn’t need another “friend”.  He is feeling like a piece of meat I guess.  When did the roles reverse??  WTF???  What is this guy thinking?  My friend is really hot and most guys would want to do her, but he’s happy with cuddling, spending the night and doing things that couples do, except the sex part.  Very frustrating for her.  I told her to get a vibrator and get rid of him unless she is just wanting what he’s giving.  I think somewhere in the past few weeks he must have grown a pussy and now doesn’t need one.

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