Who doesn’t have a toy box??

We always hear the expression, “boys and their toys”!  What about the toys girls use, sometimes with a boy, and sometimes without!  I was at a sex toy party last night (a new endeavor of mine) and some of the women were asking whether or not guys are intimidated by toys, if they like having them to add another dimension to the relationship, or what do men think about them?  I have never had a problem with a guy having issues with my toy box, in fact, many of my toys were bought by men.  Sometimes I think it takes the pressure off of the guy so he doesn’t have to feel responsible for the girls orgasm.  Sometimes, it’s fun to try a new way of getting to the same place!  Now, are there men who are scared of them?  I’m sure there are, I just haven’t run into any of them! 

One of the girls last night was talking about getting so used to toys, that it’s difficult for her to orgasm without them.  She has a dependency on them!  I know what she’s talking about!  It’s like you can get from zero to sixty in 3.5 with a toy, and with a man (especially if he’s not doing it right, taking direction well, or the girl isn’t giving direction) sometimes you never get to the finish line. 

Even when I’m in a relationship, toys still play a part in my sex life.  It’s safe, fast, and doesn’t talk back and is always a stress reliever!  If more people used toys, maybe we wouldn’t be such a Prozac nation!  I encouraged the single women to use their toys before going out at night (if they were single) so they wouldn’t do something stupid with a person they didn’t know!  You know, take the edge off a bit! 

Back years ago, nobody ever talked about their toy boxes.  Now we throw girls night out parties and we can’t get enough of them!  It’s fun to see them be talked about because embracing our sexuality makes us happier, and healthier.  Back when my mom was young, women were told they would go blind if they played with themselves.  Maybe that’s why I need glasses!  I just thought it had something to do with turning 40!  hahahahahaha!  With all the cooties out there, and all the relationships that aren’t happening, I think one of the best investments a girl can make in her own life is to find a toy that will satisfy her and get her through a dry spell.  BTW, there are lubes for that too! 

If you’re in a relationship, congrats, but if you haven’t tried a toy with your boy, maybe you should take it up to the next level.  You may have out grown Barbie, but that doesn’t mean you should stop playing.

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